My Daddy and the Christmas Clock

Several years ago I wrote an article titled “The Christmas Clock.” The story is a true story and little “Dude” in the story is my father. This story exemplifies the essence of who my earthly father is – a man of love. In honor of him and Father’s day, I am reposting the article below. I hope you enjoy it . . . and Happy Father’s Day, Daddy.

 The Christmas Clock

     herschel school pic copyLittle “Dude,” as his family called him, watched his mother as she stood in front of the mercantile admiring the beautiful eight-day striking wooden clock. She stared at it for a few moments, shook her head at the five dollar price tag then turned and walked away. It was in the late 1930’s, Christmas was coming and Dude wanted to buy the clock for his mother.

One thing, however, stood in his way. Money. It wasn’t that he didn’t have enough money to buy the clock. It was that he didn’t have any money.

A few days later Clay, a neighboring country boy, asked Dude if he had ever thought of selling his gun. Dude thought of how precious his Benjamin pump rifle was to him. He’d finally been deemed old enough to have a gun. It was an old one his dad had found for him. He’d put his own mark

on it. It wasn’t anything fancy, but it was his.

He used that gun to shoot a squirrel or rabbit and was always rewarded with a smile from his mother when he helped contribute to the dinner pot. But today, Dude could only think of the look in his mother’s eyes as she had wistfully looked in the store window.

“I’ll take five dollars for it,” he said.

“Five dollars? You must be crazy. I’ll give ya three bucks for it,” Clay said.

“Five dollars.” That’s all Dude would say.

Clay left, but returned a few days later. “I’ll give ya three fifty for that rifle.”

“Five dollars,” Dude answered.

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After several more days of trying to negotiate at four and four fifty, Clay returned with five dollars.

Dude sold him the gun, then he went to town and bought the beautiful wooden clock in the store window.

Christmas morning, when his mother opened her present, she cried. Together they placed the clock in a place of prominence.

His older brothers always said they hated the clock.  “’cause Mama knew when we were coming in late.”

So, when Mama died many years later, they all insisted that Dude have the clock. He carefully removed it from  the old homestead and took it to his house. He graced his own home with the clock and thought of his Mama each time he passed it.

Dude had demonstrated true love that Christmas. He was more concerned with what might make someone else happy than what he wanted for himself. He had acted upon a verse his mother had shared with him from John 13:35 when Jesus said, “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.”

As Dude grew up, his life was one that continually showed people the love he had for them, always putting others before himself. His home became a place where family, friends and sometimes strangers could find a place to rest their head at night. He sometimes worked two or three jobs to help put food on his table and still be able to give a little something to someone else.

He once heard of a man traveling across the United States, hand pulling a wagon. He was told that the man would stop from time to time in an area to work odd jobs, earn a little money, tell people about Jesus and move on. And, neighbors said he was camped just outside town.

That night, as a chilly winter storm blew in, Dude got in his pickup truck, drove around until he found the man and his wagon and brought him to his home. He and his wife, made the man comfortable in a small guest room. They cared for, visited with and fed the man for several days. Once the storm passed through, the old man was on his way, with a few extra dollars from Dude and his wife.

I know a lot of people say everyone is only after what they can get for themselves these days, but there are lots of “Dudes” in our world.

I heard of a woman in our town who is encountering difficulties raising three grandsons alone. Several people came together and helped her with school supplies and clothing for the boys.

In a home near us lives a woman caring for an elderly man and two mentally handicapped men. All four came down with infectious pneumonia. Two neighbors, at the risk of their own health, took food to them.

Yes, there are lots of “Dudes” in this world. We may never know how many. We may never know of all their good deeds. We may never know how their love has helped someone else. But, we can try to pass a little of that same spirit on. And not just at Christmas, but every day of the year.

Maybe you are wondering about Dude and the rifle and the clock. The clock still graces his kitchen, ticking away the minutes, the hours, the days. The gun? Well, an interesting thing happened with that gun. It ended up in an old junk shop in a town several miles from where Dude was raised and hundreds of miles from where he now lived.

One day, his wife and his sister went for a ride and happened into an old junk shop. His sister recognized the Benjamin pump rifle. It was Dude’s old gun. It still had his mark on it. Dude’s wife bought the old relic, giving a few more than five dollars for it this time. On Christmas morning, Dude, now an old man, slowly unwrapped the gift in the long skinny box that had been hidden behind the tree.

Imagine his surprise. His wife and God, had given him his old rifle back. It now hangs on a wall in the same house with the clock.

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“Just think,” he said, “I got my rifle, the clock and that old boy’s five dollars. Ain’t God good.”

 

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I will lift up my eyes to the hills. . .

Another drive – another ridge road – another spectacular view.

We’ve been enjoying the wonderful weather in WV and take evening drives. The ridge roads are often winding and narrow, so when I can find a spot to pull over and take a picture I take advantage of the opportunity. This scene reminded me of verses one and two in Psalm 121.

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I will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.

 

What an awesome view of both heaven and earth. What a reminder, that He who created both also created me. My entire being comes from the Lord. My help can come from no other.

Psalms 121: 1-2

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Guess the Picture Location

I thought we would have a little fun today. I love taking pictures. Here’s one I took that I especially love. I won’t tell you how long ago I took it or where. Who will be the first to recognize (or surmise) where the picture was taken? Please be as specific as possible.

You may click on picture to see a larger view.

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Well…Bless Her Heart

A phrase used often in the part of the U.S. where I am from is “bless her heart” or “bless his heart.” It’s been said that you can get away with the worst insult possible, as long as you preface it with “bless her heart.” Imagine me commenting, “Bless her heart, she’s gained so much weight she looks like a cow,” without the benefit of the blessing. It’s even kinder of you, if you add the word well. Many times you can let your opinion be known by saying nothing more than, “Well, bless her heart.” (Note: pronunciation in this case draws the word well out very slowly and has more than one syllable.)

As I listened to one of my favorite preachers recently, he reminded us that we use the word bless and blessings rather liberally. The next time you sneeze in a crowded room, try counting the number of times someone says, “bless you.”

The focus of today’s blog contains a blessing for all mankind. Genesis 1:24-31 states:

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.”

 So God created man in his own image,

 in the image of God he created him;

 male and female he created them.

 God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. (Genesis 1:26-28a NIV)

Most of those reading this passage of scripture probably have a good idea that when the scripture says we were created in God’s image, that the intent is spiritual rather than physical. I have written in the margin of Bible, “God made us heirs and partners” and “To understand who I am supposed to be, I need to understand God.”

As I studied this chapter of Genesis, I noticed that on days one through five, God called each thing He created into being. When He said ‘let it be,’ it was done. But on day six, God said, “Let us make.” With man, God got personally and physically involved in the creation. With man, He got His hands dirty. We are that special to Him.

When He was finished, He blessed us. Adam Clarke’s commentary says that this verse means God marked man as being under his special protection. And then He gave us a command. He told us to increase in number.

I think it’s important to remind ourselves here, how we were created. Without concentrating on how (i.e. in what fashion?), we miss what is to be multiplied. For humans, to bear fruit and increase in number means to bring others to Him and to reproduce God-like qualities.

When God finished, He looked at us and saw that what He had created was very good. It is a very good thing, being created in God’s image. He did not give that quality to the marine life, the birds, the plants, the seed-bearing fruit, the livestock. He gave that quality to man.

Sometimes I mess up and don’t live up to my potential of God-like qualities. I come back to Him and He continues to work with me, shape me, and bless me. I remind myself that I’m not in this world alone. God and I are partners. And quite honestly, I think there are times, God shakes his head, looks at me, and says, “Well, bless her heart.”

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A Work in Progress – with Barbara Oden

Barbara embraces the fact that she is God’s work in progress—in a constant state of growth and change. Published in four anthologies, she uses her sense of humor and personal life experiences to show women they don’t have to be a slave to their past. She encourages them to give their hurts over to God and then demonstrates how to get up, dust off, and live life as God intended. She and I have co-authored two devotional books and a book on writing. I know you will love Barbara Oden, her humor, her writing and her love for God as much as I do.

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Miralee Ferrel’s Blog

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Miralee Ferrel is one of my favorite authors. Go to her page and be sure and check out her newest book, “Blowing on Dandelions.”

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Christian Writers Guild

A wonderful site that offers courses, contests, conferences, critiques and now CWG publishing. Members have free access to webinars.

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American Christian Fiction Writers

ACFW’s mission is to promote Christian Fiction through developing the skills of its authors, educating them in the market, and serving as an advocate in the traditional publishing industry.

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Nick Harrison’s Blog

Nick is an editor with a major Christian publishing house and continues to write books in his spare time. His blogs offer a lot of solid writing advice.

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Advanced Fiction Writing

Randy Ingermanson – proclaimed “America’s Mad Professor of Fiction Writing” asks, ”Are you dreaming of writing a novel someday?” He has a great “snowflake” method for plotting a book. Wanted to share his site with you today because I think other authors – aspiring or published – can learn so much from Randy.

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